To Change or Not to Change !

We belong to a society , which has managed to build a closed surrounding, that resists change in any form. We desist moving into a new city or neighborhood , desist moving away from familiar groups ,desist moving into a new job or workplace,desist coming out of our personal space,afraid of breaking open the wall we have built all these years & fear of meeting someone for the first time and try including them in our group . We are cast into a particular form and shape and want to stay in that state eternally, meanwhile shaping others too in the process.
We expect people to behave in a particular fashion with us , and mold them according to our likes and dislikes.

We hate and despise new rules and legislation brought out in our society, schools, colleges, workplace and the country itself. We do not like someone to dictate terms on how do we do things.We want to do it in the same way we have been doing all along. We take a considerable time in adapting ourself to a particular habitat and its tough to force upon ourselves a new change , even if its meant for the positive side.How many times you have given this quizzical look , when your friends remark , “you have changed” , and retaliate saying “Definitely No”. What better pride can you display than to say “I havent changed a bit. I’m just the same”

Dr.Meredith , in Grey’s Anatomy says “

Change. We don’t like it. We fear it, but we can’t stop it from coming. We either adapt to change or we get left behind. It hurts to grow, anybody who tells you it doesn’t is lying, but here’s the truth sometimes the more things change the more they stay the same. And sometimes, oh, sometimes change is good. Sometimes change is everything.

This new “change” eventually raises a lot of questions to question the validity of change and do we really need to change?
How often do we find ourselves in a situation asking the inevitable “IF ? ” question .
“If I did that , If I had said that, If i had known that information, If I had told him the truth , If I hadnt done that , If I had managed to reach in time ” , the list is endless.Only to later realize , “If” is just nothing but a two letter word for futility.You cant do anything about.
If one has to change ,it has to be for the future and not for what he has been in the past.

As Sidney Sheldon quotes ” Future is like clay. It has to be molded day by day. Past is like a bedrock stone.It is immutable”

Even travelers and globe trotters , who has seen most parts of the world , actually discover life and find solace only in their own homes, no matter where it is or how small it is .
They may need a break , yet find their own feet only within the confines of their little home.

The line from Wayne’s world summarises everything : We Fear Change

Yet , the same “Change” interestingly has been responsible in deciding whos the most powerful man in the world.
Barack Obama ,the first black president of the United States has successfully shown,what “Change” can do – to win a presidency , by assuring people , that Change is good, and it is there in the offing !

4 thoughts on “To Change or Not to Change !

  1. I stumbled onto your blog from Jiya’s…
    Nice article there on Change…
    Barrack Obama, seems to be kicking all the bloggers in one way or the other!!
    Keep writing!!

  2. yeah change is only constant as they say…
    but it ought to be in a better direction always…

    anyway i liked ur template… it gives warmth in this cold winter… 🙂

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